I vented my dilemma on Reddit. My bleeding heart, which I’m too busy to detail yet. Anonymous users wrote to me:
“You can’t light yourself on fire to keep others warm”
“You can’t get someone else out of a hole by digging yourself in there with them”
That shit hit me.
What good does it do if I unlearn all my learnings to help others learn the way? That’s if they even want to.
It’s my codependency. In work. In my personal life. In between. Codependency.
Your codependency is seeping back in Amber. Be careful.